What do women really want for valentines day?

These are queries that come right together with February, cupid, and St. Valentines Day.  We might all moan and whine about how the greeting card, flower, and candy companies just love February 14 cupid's day of love, but like it or not, don't contest it.  You can't and you won't succeed.  You and your darling may choose it is too commercial and you want to keep your money or it's so ridiculous or you want to give a little something pragmatic, but trust me and hear this loud and clear SHE EXPECTS TO GET SOMETHING.  If not you can expect the cold shoulder and when you ask what's wrong in the months ahead you will get a weird answer of nothing, but it all goes back to Valentine's Day.  Even though women and girls say out loud it doesn't matter but it does.  There's a club of fifty percent of the society known as females that if they like it or not are sucked into the holiday of love.  They say it doesn't make any difference and when good friends and associates asked what they got for Valentines Day and they delineate about the craziness of the holiday and the commercialism and how they and they significant other were not sucked in, almost everyone agrees.  But in the end they feel they are making excuses for someone who either forgot or didn't care enough.  They receive the sympathetic look and although they declare not to buy into it, they feel embarrassed.  It's one day that girls love to and do boast about their guys or men in their lives just as strongly as guys boastii about their favored sports teams.  Believe me...it counts.  So I have some words of wisdom for the males, men, guys, lovers in their lives.  First of all, you have to get a specific thing.  If you go inexpensive, it's alright.  Buy a card and find a love poem on line and write it inside the card.  Or better yet, write it on a piece of paper and put inside the card.  She can take it with her as a trophy of your passion and she certainly will bring it out when her best friend gets 60 dozen roses from a new boyfriend.  The sentimental hint works.  Flowers and candy are absolutely totally the norm and you can hardly ever go wrong.  Save up for a year and have them delivered.  I promise it will be expensive, very expensive.  To cut costs, go to the market the day before and get flowers or go to Walmart and get flowers and candy and bring them home.  Either give them to her the day before or in the morning before she leaves.  That way she can take them to work or when asked about the holiday and she unquestionably will be asked she can brag that she already got her presents. 


Petite Bath Gift
Basket for my wife and mom

What do you do for girls who truly don't like flowers and candy?  My friend Bill has a girlie girl wife who is allergic to flowers and is always on a weight loss plan.  If he gave her candy she would be really angry that he encouraged her off her diet. 
Guys you need to go to the source, a woman or girl and ask for tips. I don't know why I didn't think of that before.  She is sincere and tells it like it is.  Since I have a completely new girlfriend and I already have given her flowers a lot, my sister suggests that I definitely need to have something delivered to her workplace.  Since I already have had flowers delivered there, she did some research and said I should have a spa-type gift basket delivered.  She called a company called Baskets by Rita and talked to an actual person, imagine that.